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The PRIMARY DILEMMA recognizes that working mothers are not all the same.
It offers tools to help clarify the work-family choices that we each face.

What’s your method? How contented are you?
How can you increase your job satisfaction?


I faced my dilemma, head on, when I returned to work after the birth of my first child. I went back to a demanding, full-time job with an hour commute. My husband also had a demanding full-time job with a longer commute, frequent travel and higher earning power. I was about to identify as the primary physical parent. But I did not know it. And I did not consider the implications of this role on my plan for working motherhood.

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